The Scorpio Man
Written by ED on February 28, 2007 – 2:37 am - Posted in Uncategorized |
A man with a foggy cloud over him. He is sensitive and easily hurt and always feels lonely. He does not trust anyone but himself. Sounding so negative, but he has an amazingly charisma. He is a compassionate man. He absorbs other people sentimental feeling and pain. He is a good psychiatrist and he could understand complex and confused feelings. He has a hidden power that he could use it to make things happen and do things well. He does not like people who never try to help themselves before asking other people for favors.
(Yes, call it my instincts or sheer conincidence, I am able to read situations before they even come. Most friends say I shouldn’t jump to conclusion, but the events that unfold later are enough to shut their traps most of the time. And if you’re one who cannot help yourself but resort to endless complaints and lamenting, chances are - I will tell you not to waste my time. Recently I lost a friend due to this specific factor, S knows the full story.)
He is the type of guy who will mostly achieved his goals in life. Once he sets his mind for something, he will put all his energy and efforts into it , regardless of a small matter or a big project. One of the most success-prone man in all the Zodiacs. He is a very patient man and can waits for years to reach his goals. He hates thin feeling and weak determinations. He cannot retreat or rest for long, for he thinks life has more questions and more answers to be searched.
(It’s easy for anyone to brush it off as being stubborn which in fact we are not. We are merely focused and determined to see something through. Use your labelling of “stubborn” sparingly, Scorpios will tell you not to be jealous of your lack of drive in your own life.)
If he is in love, you will get plenty of love from him, sometimes too much than you have asked for. He is serious about love and relationship and will not waste time with someone he does not love, no matter how pretty she is. He hardly makes mistake. He could tell if you have any shortcomings, and will not hesitate to tell you so. If you do not like a straight forward and sincere man, then pack your bag now. If you are an overly sensitive person, try not to ask for his comments. He will tell you the truth, even you might not be able to take it. Example, if you ask him if you are fat (and you are fat), he will say “yes, as big as a balloon”. He makes such comments because he cares for you, so do something about your weight and do not get up set with him. If he says “you look pretty today”, you can be proud because he will not say such think just to please you if he does not really mean it. There will be both kind of people, those who like him and those who hate him.
(The truth… The truth… The truth… If you’re someone who hates me for telling the truth, it’s not my fault. It’s your own inability to face facts and handle the truth. Get over it… If you enjoy hearing sweet words that does not come from the heart, please move on to someone else. But not Scorpio pls.)
If you are in love this guy, be strong and belief in your decision, do not be vulnerable. He remembers all his anger and will wait for his pay back time. He is very serious about your promise, do not promise something you could not keep. He loves his friends and will do anything for his close friends.He likes you to take care of him, but not in front of his friends. He is a complex man and you will never understand what he means if you do not really know him. He is happy to know he is a complex figure.
(Empty promises are better left untold. I do remember painful lessons I have received from various individuals, but my way of payback? I believe in karma… and when karma strikes, it’s my turn to have the final laugh. If I have a broken promise towards anyone, it is likely that the person has a broken promise beforehand, therefore I no longer see the need for me to fulfil mine towards that person. Simple to understand?)
When he is thinking or when he needs his privacy, you should give him some space. He memorizes everything well. You may say something that you’ve already forgotten, but he will remember every word you’ve said. He wants to be respected and admired, but at the same time he does not like people to have power over him. When he falls in love, he falls really deep. Once a man in this Zodiac falls in love, he will be sweeter than sugar. He does not like a plain and simple woman. A complex woman’s mind is his venture. Always be interesting and be able to talk to him about everything in any subjects. He does not like a woman who sits around waiting for his call.
(Good memory is subjective I supposed? Many friends know I am absent minded, hahaha! Maybe the writer should state, memory subjective to age & stress level? LOL! If you’re one of those whom have not heard a single word from me in whichever way - email, MSN, sms, blogs - now you know why? Many, I believe. This is darn right. I don’t believe it should only be ME initiating a conversation. Especially for women who plays hard to get with me, all the more their plots will backfire in their face. Mark my words, I don’t take this shit and my silence says it all. Hahahaha… If you fail to grab the attention of a Scorpio, chances are - you cannot make it!)
Writer’s Personal Observation
Endearing/positive qualities: warm, sensitive, very protective, caring and nurturing toward their loved ones. Very expert at offering advice and comforting people.
Qualities that can drive you a bit crazy: Possessive, strong jealousy nature but equally strong ability to hide it. Maybe you can pick up subtle clues by their lack of warmth or sudden withdrawn nature. Don’t forgive old hurts easily . Also generally prefers talking than listening. If you betray them, they may used their knowledge of you against you. (What do you get when you step on a real scorpion?)
Suggested ways to show endearment: Never take them for granted. Return back affections, you do need to wait for birthday only to buy gifts. Don’t hide secrets from them. Be a good listener. (Don’t get offended if u feel you are constantly being lectured…that is how some people show their affection. Gifts are optional, but I don’t mind a peck. Hahahahaha!).
Zodiac in which they develop mutual understanding: Pieces and Cancer.
Zodiac in which a bit challenging and need more patience and understanding: Taurus, Leo and Aquarius.
Read about your own Zodiac HERE.
June 28th, 2008 at 8:50 am
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July 31st, 2008 at 5:44 am
I have a scorpion man in my life as a really good friend. We dated years ago and have a lot of passion and love between us, still…We have talked about being together but taking time as well b/c we are wokring on our friendship now so we can get to know each other better. Sex was always good and still would be! Sometimes I dont know how to take him b/c he withdraws and I dont hear from him. I wait and try to understand but I would like to know what is the best way to go about a successfully getting back together with him and being “the one” for him?
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Hi Aquarian Heart,
I feel for you because Scorpios are quite defensive to begin with. Just like Scorpions in real life, we can live our life in solitary, but we can also live our lives in mass.
There is really no best way to getting back together. However, I do recommend that you try and find out what was causing him to withdraw. Seems to me that is the root cause and you might want to explore gently how he feels.
I am no relationship guru but I do have a friend who is well trained on that, out of the horoscope realm.
Do visit Kloudiia - Love Coach. She’s fantastic to talk to, I assure you.
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September 1st, 2008 at 10:16 am
Im a scorpio. I can understand why your scorpio friend withdraws. 1st, perhaps you have nothing for him/her to explore, 2nd he migh have found your weakness and thought that your are nothing of important to keep the relationship going. That’s how I deal with people around me.
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September 4th, 2008 at 6:50 am
Hello Scorpionfreak,
I guess that is one way of looking at it…weakness? can you elaboprate on that one? Let me give you a little bit more info…we have known eachother for 12 years and have always kept in touch and if it goes a long time we always get back in contact and he is the one that usually finds me. We live in seperate states right now but still talk every week (2-3times).Since getting past a difficult time with a situation in his family (come to find out) that is why he was withdrawing…AND of course b/c that is Scorpoi’s nature, right??!!! We have made more of a connection and have started building that and who knows what it might lead to. I gave up “trying” to make it anything and now am just going with the flow and living my life as well and it seems to be workign a lot better for me especially!
Thanks for all the advice!
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