Endoh’s Dungeon

Everyone’s complaining about how little time they have, I guess I am no different. I am human afterall. Time has become such a precious commodity in our life, losing track of time probably is a better deal. Doesn’t that sounds like, sweeping the problem underneath the carpet is better than dealing with the problem?

J asked earlier on, why shouldn’t I start dating again? In fact, she anticipated my answer to her question before I even typed it. Time! However, she did really set me back thinking for a good 15 minutes on where my time has drifted to.

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Many have asked people like us, how did we do it? With all these painful memories, betrayal and physical abuses, how can we ignore everything that had been inflicted on us?

Keeyit commented in my previous post, that forgiveness is not forgetting. That is precisely the idea that I am trying to pass across. Most of us tend to associate forgiveness with forgetting the experiences and hurt, but I can tell you that is impossible. I will explain why…

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An easy word for most, so easy to the extend that it takes a lifetime to learn and achieve. The simplicity of this act, stretches beyond the relief of guilt in someone but also unlock one from resentment that can linger around until the day we die.

I am sure all of us have suffered some form of injustice in our life regardless of our age. There’s this saying that time will heal it all, but hurt is something that can intensify over time. Take September 11th for example, the families of the dead watched their loved ones being killed before their eyes again and again. How possible can a dead be killed again? Well, the television broadcast are playing that scene repeatedly, isn’t it?

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Each time friends confide in me about their relationship problems, I realised that most of them are unable to see beyond the whole issue. The almost immediate lament one can put up is “relationships are troublesome”.

I am not sure if it’s due to the fact that all of us have somewhat developed this habit of selecting the easiest target to aim our arrows at. Even if we are relaxed and laidback, doesn’t quite mean we can speak or think easily with logical and sensible views. For privacy sake, I shall not use names in all the examples that I will be using in this post.

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Are relationships and marriages falling apart because of a clash in old traditions and new beliefs? This has been something much discussed until I was chilling out with one of the Taiwanese variety programmes, it painted a very sad picture in me.

To cut the story short, this was what happened. The bf wanted to propose to his gf and so the tv production crew set him up with one. Through the proposal, his gf listed a few requirements which included:-

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